Looking for short horror story about graveyard and family of ghouls

Question

I read this story in the 1990s.

• A little boy goes into a graveyard and meets a woman.

• He goes into a crypt. This is house of ghouls. The boy is in fact a ghoul(!).

• The boy's father collected finger bones

• There was a girl with black hair and a little bat woven into her hair.

• The woman from the graveyard goes into crypt. The boy mesmerizes her and his family eat the woman.

Answer 1

It sounds like a book by Caitlin R. Kiernan. There are ghoul families like this in her "Daughter of Hounds" trilogy.

Maybe she has written short fiction in the same setting?