I went through Troi's Memory Alpha biography looking for matching patterns, and then combed the scripts of the episodes I judged most likely to contain this plot point.
As Richard notes, "The Survivors" is the best example, though worryingly it does not appear on the wiki page. I'm not quite sure what to make of that.
"The Loss" actually is an example, because Troi does not realize that she's lost her powers for quite some time:
[Sickbay]
CRUSHER: Yes, Deanna?
TROI [OC]: Beverly
[Troi's office]
TROI: I'm feeling very dizzy.
CRUSHER [OC]: Did you hit your head?
TROI: I'm not sure. I'm not sure what happened.
Jump ahead a few scenes:
[Troi's office]
CRUSHER: I got here as quickly as I could. I've got a Sickbay filled with headaches. How are you?
TROI: Well, when I first called you I was feeling intense pain. Now it's gone, but I'm feeling a bit foggy.
CRUSHER: I'd like to take you to Sickbay and run an inner nuncial series. Can you walk?
RIKER [OC]: All senior staff report to the Observation Lounge.
CRUSHER: Are you up to that?
TROI: I think so.
(then she gets a look of horror on her face)
CRUSHER: What is it?
TROI: Nothing. Nothing, I'm fine.
While she could be (read: probably is) in denial at this point, it does fit the overall pattern quite well.
"Night Terrors" is loosely similar, because Troi initially believes her dreams are "just dreams," but I don't think it quite counts.
She behaves oddly without apparently realizing it in "Man of the People," but isn't relieved of duty until she is already comatose. At one point she does randomly cancel some appointments, one of which incidentally has a rather interesting name:
(Deanna checks herself in a mirror. Is that a wrinkle? )
TROI: Computer today's appointment calendar.
COMPUTER: Oh nine hundred hours, counselling session with Ensign Janeway. Ten hundred hours, counselling session with
TROI: Cancel them. Cancel everything till after lunch.
COMPUTER: Acknowledged.
But this doesn't really fit the pattern all that well.
Finally, in a rather interesting reversal, Star Trek: Nemesis actually has her figure out that something is wrong before she asks to be relieved of duty:
DEANNA: Shinzon's Viceroy seems to have the ability to reach into my thoughts. I've become a liability... I request to be relieved of my duties.
PICARD: Permission denied. If you can possibly endure any more of these assaults. I need you at my side. Now more than ever I...
This is not from the final version of the script, so it's probably wrong in some way, or the scene may have been cut completely.