This is set in the future when Earth is split between two organisations. Women and men split and went to space but both have went in opposite directions.
The guys and the girls both have mechs that they control. Under the right circumstances, certain mechs can combine to make unique mechs. Both the guys and the girls have a common enemy that they fight together to defeat.
It's somewhat like Gurren Lagann when they combine to make a stronger mech. I think it was made in the 1990's to 2006 may be older.
Japanese-style animation I think? This was on Netflix when I watched it, but it is not there anymore.