I am trying to identify a trilogy (I can't rule out that there was a fourth book) I read in German [I don't know whether German was the original language] at some time prior to 2002. It was young-adult fantasy, either no or low magic. More fantasy-renaissance than fantasy-middle-ages. The stories all took place in one country, a hostile foreign power is also involved.
The protagonist was a young male commoner. In the first book, he travels with a father-figure around the country for work reasons - they may have been travelling craftsmen, but it could also be traders or circus folks. They come across the secondary protagonist, a run-away (or kidnapped?) princess. There is an evil vizier, who flees or is banished to the hostile foreign country at the end of the first book. The protagonist and the princess are set up as star-crossed lovers.
A later book sees the country occupied by the hostile power. The protagonist ends up leading a resistance unit under a nom-de-guerre inspired by some bird. The princess (and potentially other characters) know of his exploits, but don't know that it is him. He is haunted by the violent acts he commits.
I am least sure about the final book. I believe that there is some form of reconciliation between the two countries, which becomes possible because the foreign throne is inherited by the more enlightened crown prince/because the young foreign king sees through the deceptions of his evil advisors.