You might be looking for The Entire History of You, which is not a movie but an episode of Black Mirror.
It originally aired in 2011 so you could have definitively watched it in 2014.
(Note: I take this all from the plot page on Wikipedia, because like you I have watched this episode a couple of years ago and I don't remember all the details.)
It's about a couple in a future where people can record their memories with some chip or something in their eye.
They use a device called a "grain". It records everything they experience and it can be used to "re-do" i.e. re-watch whatever they want selectively. The episode is centered around a couple having some marital trouble.
I remember a scene where they just stood in bed and watched a memory of themselves having sex rather than actually having sex.
There is a sex scene after the couple reconciles which includes them watching previous sexual encounters.
And the guy had a big house and there was a car chase.
Not a chase but he does wreck his car while totally drunk.
I also remember that the wife leaked the husband's memories on TV or something.
The husband eventually "forces" (in the psychological sense) his wife to show the memory of her having sex with another man. She shows it on the TV in their house as far as I recall.