Could this be Season 7, Episode 3: Interface? While it doesn't involve "intercepting" a dead person, it does seem to fit the "talks of life and death" topic. It involves LaForge struggling to accept the reported death of his mother and an entity making use of that to convince LaForge to assist them, while still giving LaForge a chance to cope with and accept his mother's actual death.
LaForge is testing out an interface with his visor that would allow him to remotely control a probe. They are using it to access a ship which has become trapped in a gas giant. During the mission, LaForge receives news that another starship commanded by his mother was lost with all hands presumed dead, but he remains hopeful that she will be found until hard evidence is found otherwise.
However, LaForge later then sees his mother on the original trapped ship via the probe, and his mother claims they are trapped on the planet's surface, having passed by this planet approximately 10 days earlier. Later parts in the episode involve him talking with Data, Troi, etc. about how this could be possible, whether he hallucinated it, and whether this is part of him refusing to accept his mother's death.
Eventually, the crew decides to try and rescue the trapped ship with a tractor beam, pulling it directly out of the gas giant, but LaForge wants to instead pilot the ship lower using the probe to try and stage a rescue mission. He begins this rescue mission without authorization. During the attempt, he learns that what he had seen was not his mother but instead a subspace creature which had become trapped itself along with the original vessel. This creature was somehow able to read LaForge's mind and project the image of his mother because of the probe interface.
LaForge's plan therefore does not find his mother or the survivors of their ship, but it is successful in rescuing these creatures instead. However, the interaction with his "mother", even though faked by the creatures, helped LaForge feel "like I had a chance to say goodbye," seemingly coming to terms with and accepting his mother's death.