Padmé seems to fall in love with Anakin awfully quickly and in the films we never really seem to get given a concrete reason behind it.

Could it be that it's supposed to mimic the OT (in that Padmé sees Anakin's loyalty to her and his love for his friends throughout the film) or are we simply supposed to assume that they're having tons of important conversations off-screen?

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    Why does anyone fall in love with anyone else?
    – phantom42
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 18:25
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    They have plenty of important conversations onscreen. Anakin doesn't like sand, but Padme is soft and is not like sand.
    – KSmarts
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 18:42
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    I definitely agree with the question. I can understand how it might seem ok in the script, but there was ZERO chemistry between the two actors on-screen. At least if there was a spark between them on-screen, it would have made more sense as a "whirlwind romance".
    – Omegacron
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:39
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    This is a great question because when anakin is anywhere near padme, all he does is whine.
    – Escoce
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:46
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    Definitely nothing. You can see her visibly repressing a shudder as he creepers all over her in that backless-gown scene. The worst chemistry between two romantic leads ever.
    – mxyzplk
    Commented Mar 6, 2015 at 5:13

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In this "love featurette", the actress portraying Padmé, Natalie Portman speaks to the reasons why her character was attracted to Anakin;

  • His looks
  • The fact that he is able to allow her to be less serious about herself
  • His looks
  • He has a "sullen darkness" that makes him a "bad boy"

The official novelisation also answers this quite neatly

  • He's young, handsome and she finds him physically attractive

  • He's dangerous (powerful and headstrong)

  • She senses his deep connection to the Force

  • She respects that he's devoted his life to helping others.

  • Her relationship with him represents a form of rebellion that she's never encountered before (forbidden love)

She looked over at Anakin, who was sleeping somewhat restlessly. She could see him now, not as a Jedi Padawan and her protector, but just as a young man. A handsome young man, and one whose actions repeatedly professed his love for her. A dangerous young man, to be sure, a Jedi who was thinking about things he should not. A man who was inevitably following the call of his heart above that of pragmatism and propriety. And all for her. Padmé couldn’t deny the attractiveness of that. She and Anakin were on similar roads of public service, she as a Senator, he as a Jedi Padawan, but he was showing rebellion against the present course...

She's also impressed with his openness and lack of guile about his feelings:

“You are in my very soul, tormenting me,” Anakin went on, not a bit of falseness in his tone. This was no ploy to garner any physical favors; this was honest and straightforward, refreshingly so to the woman who had spent most of her life being attended by handmaidens whose job it was to please and entertaining dignitaries whose agendas were never quite what they seemed.

And, of course you can never underestimate the power of a man who can make a woman laugh :-)

Padmé had to clutch at her belly, she was laughing so hard. Caught up in the whirlwind of the moment, Anakin sprang to his feet and ran off to the side, cutting in front of a shaak and frightening it with his sheer jubilance.

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    Makes sense. Lucas should thank his lucky stars for the novelizations. Or else his movies would be honeycomb with holes Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:06
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    @LenieLenape - Oh, they're still full of holes. At least 30% of the question on this site are about exploring those ;-))
    – Valorum
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:07
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    How did she deal with him murdering Sand People? Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:28
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    @LenieLenape - It was her idea not to tell the Jedi council and to keep it a secret. And no, I'm not joking.
    – Valorum
    Commented Mar 5, 2015 at 19:35
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    @Richard Thank you for reading that book so we don't have to. When I clicked on the question link, I was expecting the only answer to be "Nobody knows, not even Lucas." Commented Mar 6, 2015 at 0:47

In the movies it's clear that he followed his heart, and she was very similar.

(heavily paraphrased)

Anakin: "I want to go to my mother and help her, but I can't, I'm a jedi and I've been ordered to stay here with you on Naboo."

Padme: "I'm going to Tatooine. You're supposed to protect me, but I'm going whether you go or not."

Yes, he was also good looking, powerful, and hung out with powerful people. He was also flexible, and when boundaries chafed, he found other outlets to resolve conflicts he had. They both had very similar situations where they are boxed in and bounded by various external forces, and both were creative in finding ways to resolve internal and external conflict while still maintaining their standards, or at least appearing to maintain their standards. They were both flexible idealists - both wanting peace and happiness for the universe, both working toward that end with all their ability in their different spheres.

And, finally, he absolutely, openly, and unabashedly adored her. It was he that first suggested they both leave their lives and be together while she resisted, then later as he became more bound up in his path she tried to convince him to do the same. Until he was caught in Palpatine's trap, he would have left everything behind for her. In fact this was the core of the trap - by binding her fate to a belief that Palpatine and the dark side could save her, Palpatine knew Anakin was his.

This, on top of the constant, close contact between the two, outside the reach and influence of others, gave him time to court her and help her develop feelings for him.

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    +1 for making the connection between his former willingness to abandon everything for her, and his eventual unwillingness to abandon "his new Empire" for her. That is what's "breaking her heart." Not his darker impulses (he's killed Sandpeople children before and she was okay with it), but his newfound obsession with mundane ("worldly") ambitions, which he wants her to become a part of. Now that he's tasted power, his own power plays have taken her place in his life. That, rather than his crimes or his outbursts against her on Mustafar per se, is what leads her to say that he's "changed."
    – Wolfie Inu
    Commented Oct 21, 2015 at 9:04

Valorum's answer seems pretty complete, but I just wanted to add that the Revenge of the Sith novelization offers some additional insight in chapter 9:

Her life before Anakin belonged to someone else, some lesser being to be pitied, some poor impoverished spirit who could never suspect how profoundly life should be lived.

Her real life began the first time she looked into Anakin Skywalker's eyes and found in there not the uncritical worship of little Annie from Tatooine, but the direct, unashamed, smoldering passion of a powerful Jedi: a young man, to be sure, but every centimeter a man—a man whose legend was already growing within the Jedi Order and beyond. A man who knew exactly what he wanted and was honest enough to simply ask for it; a man strong enough to unroll his deepest feelings before her without fear and without shame. A man who had loved her for a decade, with faithful and patient heart, while he waited for the act of destiny he was sure would someday open her own heart to the fire in his.

But though she loves her husband without reservation, love does not blind her to his faults. She is older than he, and wise enough to understand him better than he does himself. He is not a perfect man: he is prideful, and moody, and quick to anger—but these faults only make her love him the more, for his every flaw is more than balanced by the greatness within him, his capacity for joy and cleansing laughter, his extraordinary generosity of spirit, his passionate devotion not only to her but also in the service of every living being.

He is a wild creature who has come gently to her hand, a vine tiger purring against her cheek. Every softness of his touch, every kind glance or loving word is a small miracle in itself. How can she not be grateful for such gifts?

This is why she will not allow their marriage to become public knowledge. Her husband needs to be a Jedi. Saving people is what he was born for; to take that away from him would cripple every good thing in his troubled heart.

  • +1 great answer, though the novelization here completely fails to account for Anakin's mass-murdering tendencies 'He is not a perfect man... he is quick to anger' doesn't really cover it! Commented Mar 14, 2017 at 11:18

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