For the new gender policies, I'm a cis-male and prefer the he/him pronoun set.
I've been reading SF and Fantasy for more than fifty years, remember Star Trek new episodes (Tuesday evenings, where I was), watched SF movies on TV and also remember new Twilight Zone installments, read Tolkien. Asimov, Heinlein and Zelazny before they died -- and I've got a very good memory.