I read this manhwa a year ago but I forgot the title. I changed phones so most of the titles are lost and since the site where i use to read was brought down.
So I vaguely remember about the story is that the female lead is on her death bed. She had a miserable life with her husband, I think a duke or something, always away to wars to earn money and her son also leaving her. Their son was brainwashed by the husband's mistress (the husband's ex-lover I think?) that he was abandoned by the sick wife.
After the death of the female lead, her son with blonde hair(?) became an archmage and went to the enemy camp after finding out what his father did and all of those were lies about her stepmother and real mother and that his father regretted every single day since the death of the female lead which then resulted to the regression of the female lead, she didn't know though that her husband also have memories of their previous life.
I hope this is really an independent webtoon/manhwa and not a mix up made by my memory.