I believed the female lead was a noble girl. She lived in luxury but was unaware that her family embezzled money for their own comfort. Then there was this one boy who was a servant in that family. The female lead and the servant boy fell in love and had a relationship, without the girl knowing he was actually a spy sent to discover her family's wrongdoing. After being captured, the people killed her family, including her.
After a few years, she was reincarnated as another girl, more specifically a commoner. She then wished to atone for her family's wrongdoing and her unawareness of it, which caused the people to suffer. Then she was recommended to be a maid to a noble household, which belonged to the fake servant boy she knew in her first life.
This was a mostly black and white manga. The female lead had light-colored hair in her first life and darker hair after being reincarnated. The servant boy had black hair and he tied it a little bit, if I'm not mistaken.