This manhwa has a long white-haired male lead, his eyes were either purple or red, I forgot, but he used to be a slave for the main character (MC) and then, later on the story, he became a powerful magician and killed the MC's whole family, except the MC.
He kept her in the top of a magic tower and kept her there until the MC managed to escape herself, since she has this wind god on her side or something. Both the male lead and the MC got along, though; they don't hate each other and more like they understood each other.
There was this other universe where the male lead was so powerful that he could see the MC, even though she wasn't supposed to be visible because it was just her dream (I think).