Julian Keller is better known as Hellion. The same Hellion who is critically injured by Lady Deathstryke when the New X-Men try to ambush the Purifiers.
As for why X-23 is so torn up, Hellion and X-23 may have a history of looking out for each other:
New X-Men team. Just prior to the competition, Emma asked Julian to make sure that X-23 was eliminated early. However, when given the chance to knock her out, he saved her instead, because he owed her for doing the same during a session in the "Danger Cave".
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During the fight with Nimrod, X-23 was severely injured and was unable to heal herself. Hellion took it upon himself to rescue her by flying to the Institute
~ Marvel Wikia
It's likely this closeness is one of the reason's why she seems so 'torn up'.